LOVE

Love is not love which alters when its alteration finds… oh no, it’s an ever fixed mark, Shakespeare knew better…

Love! What an odd concept. Agape love I understand, philia, ludus all I understand but am afraid I would never understand Eros love. You love her but you can’t help but hit, hurt and abuse her every now and then. She’s got to know who the head of the family is hence she needs discipline. I get that.  You love him but you can’t help but rat him out to your friends and family and every now and then you cheat on him. He needs to learn how to appreciate you more often, I get that. What I don’t get is what’s the point of all the pointless love if you both can’t have each others

back?

To all young ladies out there who have managed to get themselves into situations like this and you have somehow convinced yourself that he loves you; he doesn’t care about you darling, you are just the thing he uses from time to time. If he love you like he love himself, he wouldn’t hurt you.

If you have a girlfriend who rats you out to your folks and hers, making them see you in a very unflattering light, just know you are dating yourself. Better to be alone than be with someone you cannot trust.

#that said, I honestly know nothing about how Eros love works, literary. Am not sure Eros love works at all but if you are out there, and you love her to death and she feels same; then you both most certainly are the exceptions. In time, you both will learn there are no exceptions when its Eros love at play.